That’s a great picture cartoon. Awesome. Liked the saying. And you’re beautiful. You do what you want to do. And trans is beautiful. You look beautiful.
Thank you. It’s hot. And you’re hot. just wanted to be honest. That picture says so much cartoon. Because there is this stigma that that is a big deal. I think it’s a sexy thing. And makes her even more beautiful. I see power in that. And if that gives you power then that is something that should be celebrated. Yes so much beauty. Really enjoyed that. Please post more articles like that.
It's been many years since my libido left the building. I'm functionally asexual now and it's honestly the greatest gift life has ever given me.
I do, however, have many memories of some insanely *incredible* experiences. Most of them were with my ex-spouse. And the rest? With the woman in the mirror! And I never felt the need to justify or apologize for what I did with a consenting... uh, me.
Why on earth would anyone deny themselves the most pleasurable things in life, especially when it's literally the SAFEST, sure-fire way to experience something so intensely incredible, and that so few others will ever know or understand?
I'm glad I lived it to the fullest when it was still there to enjoy. I don't miss it, though, and much prefer life without such needs. That's just *my* experience, what's right for me. I would never try to convince anyone else, "You should live without it, too!", just because it's made my life so much easier. It's also not anything I actively "chose for myself". It just happened over a span of years until there were no such needs or desire remaining.
Hmm... it just occurred to me. Maybe that's the closest I'll get to a pseudo menopause? 🤔 I mean totally different mechanics but... Oh, never mind.
I think people should spend more time enjoying the things that light them up most, and less time (preferably NO time) judging others for what lights *them* up or gets them off or whatever.
What's REALLY creepy, is other people telling you how to live YOUR life, and what is right or wrong to do with *your* time and your own fucking body! And I make NO apologies for a totally warranted *f-pun*, f-cousin of the more frequently used *f-bomb*.
Since people gonna judge you regardless, at least let it be for being authentic and true to who you are, in the fullest!
¡Vive sin vergüenza, siempre! Because you have nothing to be ashamed of, if the *worst* thing you do in life is with your own fucking body. That's right - 'nother f-pun drop! Seemed more fitting than a mic drop.
Ahh, but now we are putting all cis women in a box
“ I mean, cis women are amazing and all . . “ And I’m not sure about this either. “You want to be a woman cause it’s sexy, don’t you!?!,” is kinda creepy, okay? . . . Now, like I said, cis woman are . . “ etc. It’s all more complex than that. Respect, consideration, and the right to be who you are is where it all lands.
Now, do I like the way I look now? More so than I ever did before. But I’m still the one doing the liking of me. It makes my “me” happy to be sexy and stylish. My style. Me. The one that I’ve been putting together since I was allowed to dress my self. Ya know? That’s why I do it.
Again, I like me. I’m reportedly fun at parties. That includes during “sexy time” too. Who doesn’t like to get off 🤷🏻♀️
But it’s me getting off. Me, a trans woman. The same me that’s been here all along. Hi 👋
Again, cis women are cool and all . . .”
Though I love that “theory” for you, here’s another one:
I can say definitively that it’s not all about the sexual part of existence. Being who you are is all about how you navigate the world and how you are seen in it as well. Some people think that the great equalizer is the genitalia and what you were assigned at birth. They don’t account for how each person perceives themselves and their place in the world.
Ya know, I think that the me I haven’t found exactly, won’t really be the me that I’ve always thought was me, or at least in the eyes that weren’t me… 😑 and no, in my current space, I’m sure it’s not all about sex either…
Identity isn’t a theory to be dissected — it’s lived, experienced, and real. Being a trans woman isn’t about sex, it’s about you being you. Admiration for others doesn’t erase your own existence, and your story makes that unmistakably clear.
Hi Samantha. I just started a thread and I hope it's on your page as I obviously don't know what the hell I'm doing on substack!!
Thank you.
That’s a great picture cartoon. Awesome. Liked the saying. And you’re beautiful. You do what you want to do. And trans is beautiful. You look beautiful.
Thank you. It’s hot. And you’re hot. just wanted to be honest. That picture says so much cartoon. Because there is this stigma that that is a big deal. I think it’s a sexy thing. And makes her even more beautiful. I see power in that. And if that gives you power then that is something that should be celebrated. Yes so much beauty. Really enjoyed that. Please post more articles like that.
It's been many years since my libido left the building. I'm functionally asexual now and it's honestly the greatest gift life has ever given me.
I do, however, have many memories of some insanely *incredible* experiences. Most of them were with my ex-spouse. And the rest? With the woman in the mirror! And I never felt the need to justify or apologize for what I did with a consenting... uh, me.
Why on earth would anyone deny themselves the most pleasurable things in life, especially when it's literally the SAFEST, sure-fire way to experience something so intensely incredible, and that so few others will ever know or understand?
I'm glad I lived it to the fullest when it was still there to enjoy. I don't miss it, though, and much prefer life without such needs. That's just *my* experience, what's right for me. I would never try to convince anyone else, "You should live without it, too!", just because it's made my life so much easier. It's also not anything I actively "chose for myself". It just happened over a span of years until there were no such needs or desire remaining.
Hmm... it just occurred to me. Maybe that's the closest I'll get to a pseudo menopause? 🤔 I mean totally different mechanics but... Oh, never mind.
I think people should spend more time enjoying the things that light them up most, and less time (preferably NO time) judging others for what lights *them* up or gets them off or whatever.
What's REALLY creepy, is other people telling you how to live YOUR life, and what is right or wrong to do with *your* time and your own fucking body! And I make NO apologies for a totally warranted *f-pun*, f-cousin of the more frequently used *f-bomb*.
Since people gonna judge you regardless, at least let it be for being authentic and true to who you are, in the fullest!
¡Vive sin vergüenza, siempre! Because you have nothing to be ashamed of, if the *worst* thing you do in life is with your own fucking body. That's right - 'nother f-pun drop! Seemed more fitting than a mic drop.
Well said. And glad you’re enjoying yourself. I think feeling beauty is important. And doing that for yourself.
Thank you are gorgeous.
Ahh, but now we are putting all cis women in a box
“ I mean, cis women are amazing and all . . “ And I’m not sure about this either. “You want to be a woman cause it’s sexy, don’t you!?!,” is kinda creepy, okay? . . . Now, like I said, cis woman are . . “ etc. It’s all more complex than that. Respect, consideration, and the right to be who you are is where it all lands.
Now, do I like the way I look now? More so than I ever did before. But I’m still the one doing the liking of me. It makes my “me” happy to be sexy and stylish. My style. Me. The one that I’ve been putting together since I was allowed to dress my self. Ya know? That’s why I do it.
Again, I like me. I’m reportedly fun at parties. That includes during “sexy time” too. Who doesn’t like to get off 🤷🏻♀️
But it’s me getting off. Me, a trans woman. The same me that’s been here all along. Hi 👋
Again, cis women are cool and all . . .”
Though I love that “theory” for you, here’s another one:
I can say definitively that it’s not all about the sexual part of existence. Being who you are is all about how you navigate the world and how you are seen in it as well. Some people think that the great equalizer is the genitalia and what you were assigned at birth. They don’t account for how each person perceives themselves and their place in the world.
I had to look up that title word!
We are so binary as people, as if anything has to be A or B. Each of us is our own kind of complicated…. 🤷♀️
Ya know, I think that the me I haven’t found exactly, won’t really be the me that I’ve always thought was me, or at least in the eyes that weren’t me… 😑 and no, in my current space, I’m sure it’s not all about sex either…
I am who I am at this moment. I can’t change my past nor make a future. One can never step in the same river twice.
However, I’ve been me through each and every “present,” when I was present, at least.
Be who you are. There is no other choice.
Thank you for saying this so clearly.
Identity isn’t a theory to be dissected — it’s lived, experienced, and real. Being a trans woman isn’t about sex, it’s about you being you. Admiration for others doesn’t erase your own existence, and your story makes that unmistakably clear.