Autogynphila?

Honestly, I was actually expecting a response to mine. I’d left your autogynphila “vail” undisturbed, purposely…, hanging 🤷🏻‍♀️

But then I went all sexy on you, didn’t I. Why?

Trying to explain the differences and similarities I have while “in coitus,” is the fruit of your above hanging theory. You’d never see me.

It’s always about sex, isn’t it? 🙄

I mean, cis women are amazing and all, but I actually like being a trans woman. It’s some of you that seem to have a problem with it.

Right, let’s do this. [deep breath]:

Your near constant, “You want to be a woman cause it’s sexy, don’t you!?!,” is kinda creepy, okay?

I like me. Who I am. I’m a trans woman. Now, like I said, cis women are amazing. But I don’t want to “be” one. See, I’m pretty cool too, as a trans woman 💁🏻‍♀️

So, as friends, I say, I don’t want to “be a woman,” though I prayed I’d wake up as one as a child, because I already am a woman. It’s who I am, in that “cogito, ergo sum” sort of way. Okay? This “me,” is me. Always has been. I know, cause I was there.

Now, do I like the way I look now? More so than I ever did before. But I’m still the one doing the liking of me. It makes my “me” happy to be sexy and stylish. My style. Me. The one that I’ve been putting together since I was allowed to dress my self. Ya know? That’s why I do it.

Again, I like me. I’m reportedly fun at parties. That includes during “sexy time” too. Who doesn’t like to get off 🤷🏻‍♀️

But it’s me getting off. Me, a trans woman. The same me that’s been here all along. Hi 👋

Again, cis women are cool and all, and I have loads of admiration for them, but honey, between you, me and the wall, it isn’t all about sex 💅

Sometimes, a cigar really is just a cigar. Okay?

Though I love that “theory” for you, here’s another one:

I knew who I was long before I put the concept of sex into me. I then built my system of attractions and preferences around who I am. I know, cause I was there 💅